The reason for such secrecy is simply that if someone else relies on you to provide or contribute financially, there will always be a reason to spend your secret money. If you do not work and are dependent on your husband's salary to support you, there may come a day where you need this money to survive. All women need to have their own bankroll and keep their personal finance situation in good shape.
This money is not "mad money" to spend on frivolous fun outings, fancy clothing or vacations. This money is a secret fund to help you in case of a tragedy. It's not something most women think about, but one day your husband or co-habitating significant other could leave you without warning or, your relationship may deteriorate to the point of you having to walking out on him.
If you think that your husband will find out that you opened a bank account because of the interest which is reported to the IRS at tax time, another idea is to sock away cash in a pair of rarely worn shoes or a handbag that you keep hidden in the back of your closet. Or you can open a non- interest bearing checking account, throw away the checks and only keep the debit card. You can avoid having statements sent to the house by choosing email delivery of monthly statements.
If you think there is no way to hide the disappearance of cash from your husband or significant other, think again! Here are some ideas to siphon money into your secret bankroll:
1. Keep all your spare change each day and use toward your secret bankroll.
2. If you travel for your job and your company pays your expenses to you in a separate check other than in your paycheck, use this money.
3. Keep all payments from flexible savings account or insurance payments that come in the mail.
4. Use the surplus food budget money. If you are a homemaker and don't work, use coupons and sales when you go grocery shopping and divert the money you saved into your secret bankroll.
5. Write articles for Associated Content and use the income to fund your secret bankroll.
You will notice a new feeling of security when your secret bankroll increases and you get in the habit of accumulating money. Don't feel guilty about this secret account. Women need to be protected in case of emergencies!
Published by Jane Meyer
Jane Meyer is an independent contractor and an AC Top 1000 Content Producer 2009. She works from home writing for various websites and freelancing on Fiverr.com. View profile
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13 Comments
Post a CommentI was with my husband for 7 years prior to us getting married. Our Relationship was based on Mutual Respect, Trust, Sharing and Love.
My beloved husband passed away July 24, 2010. I went to sign the online Guestbook at first I walked away thinking it would be too emotional for me. I went back to my computer and it was very easy for me to write " I am Blessed to say that there is nothing I can write in this book that we had not already discussed, shared and showed each other!" And knowing that there was nothing that I could think of to say "I wish I would have told you, showed you or shared with you has brought me Great Comfort!!
So, My Advice -- Respect, Trust, Love and Share with you spouse and if you can't or won't do that -- give up the relationship!
I've done just this FOR my spouse. In the event of my departure from this earth I want him to have funds toward stability during what might otherwise be a difficult time when he could potentially lose his home etc. The only problem, is how do I keep it secret and yet at my demise have him learn of it's existence?
Let's review: (a) "Thou shalt not lie". (b) "Money is the root of all evil". (c) "What goes around, comes around".
If women want GOOD advice, be honest with your husband or significant other - in ALL things. And men should do the same.
I wonder if Ms.(?) Meyer is married. If so, she should be ashamed.
Men and women need to this.
However, money advice is geared toward women and men are the bad guys.
i want my wife to do this right away for her because i love her and she deserves the best
The media is so manipulative aren't they? all these little articles trying to create conflict and danger... makes ya think eh?
no wonder divorce rates are so high. Lets lie to eachother.
I felt ashamed of being a woman when I read this shit.