Why Do Women Want Sex When You Don't?

It seems like women usually want sex when you don't. Is this true? This may be the hours after work when you are busy doing something or working on a project on the computer that you may still need to finish. They say that they want sex early when in fact you usually perform this duty later during the night when you yourself are actually in bed. Which could be much later for them Women like to get satisfied sexually much earlier, especially if you are married to a career person that works all day and wants things done much earlier.

I have heard this at times, "oh it's too late or I'm so tired now you should have had me much earlier." Then I say to myself, "man, I never win." Women should just cater to this task when the men want it. But that is just a one-sided notion. Because if you don't cater to her sexual expectations her frustration meter can skyrocket then she will not want to have anything to do with you for that night. Does any of this seem at all familiar? A woman's sexual time clock is much different than that of men's. Some women want it all the time but this may be because their significant other doesn't offer it to them like they would like. Then you have other women that work all the time and that is all that they think about.

So the notion of sex seems to have been put in the back burner in their minds and treated at a much lower priority. Some women do want sex with their man but do not show any type of sexual expression to them and the communication they try to relay to their spouse is lost and unrecognized. So talk to your partner and see if you can communicate this freely with them to maybe set certain times that you both can agree to enjoy each other sexually. Sometimes men just like the spontaneous of it all and they feel that planned sexual dates are not a good idea at all. This may be the same issue with women as well.

There is a certain sense of passion and intrigue when sex is unplanned and just happens naturally. The experience in itself maybe a lot better and more worth while this way. There is a lot to consider here but I feel that communication of sharing the desires of two people should perhaps be discussed so the future can be more clarified of this sexual miscommunication.

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