Why Won't She Talk to Me?

So you've met or have seen this girl who looks like she could be the girl of your dreams. She is the right height, had the perfect eyes, the perfect hair, body shape and personality. She has everything that you desire but she will not talk to you. Every time you approach her she acts as though she is in a hurry and you are not sure of what to do. This happens to be the best of us and you needn't stress over it too much because she might have feelings for you too. Below are just a few reasons why she might be avoiding you.

She is shy. The girl of your dreams could be shy to talk to you. When you see her with friends or with others she may appear to be very lively and outgoing and this is probably because she knows these people and feels comfortable around them. However, she does not know you and she may feel a bit shy to talk to you. Whenever you see her smile, wave, or say hi to her. She will get used to you doing this and might one day stop to say a quick hello to you.

Her breath smells. Girls can get smelly breath too. Perhaps you catch her on days when she does not have a mint or piece of gum on hand. If a person is not very talkative throughout the day their breath can start smelling and this could be the case with her. She does not want to talk to you with foul breath. This could be devastating and very embarrassing to any girl.

She does not feel that she looks good. Many beautiful girls are very insecure about their looks. Although she might appear not appear insecure to you because she wears nice clothing, she might feel a great deal of hatred towards her appearance. She might feel as though she is perfect enough. You can try telling her that she looks nice when you see her. Compliment her from day to day and she might come around.

You intimidate her. Your presence might be overbearing to her. Maybe she thinks that you appear to be too outgoing and this makes her feel really small. Take a look at yourself are you that guy? That guy that knows everyone, that guy that is the loudest? If you are, maybe tone it down a bit and approach her quietly and humbly.

She thinks you are weird. She could think that you look or act weird. Some girls will tell you upfront what they think of you. A good way to tell if she thinks you are weird is to look at her facial expressions. Does she contort her face in disgust when you talk to her? Does she seem uninterested? Does she wipe her hands off after shaking your hand? Or Does she roll her eyes when you talk to her? If so, then she probably thinks that you are weird. Also, listen to how she responds to you; is her tone annoyed or discourteous? If so, then she is giving you an obvious hint that she is not interested.

You have done something to offend her. Maybe you were somewhere and did something that she thought was offensive. Think about how you have spent the last month? Think about what type of personality you have. Have you done anything bizarre, mean or disgusting? Are you pompous and impolite?

She does not like your friends. Maybe the girl does not have a natural affinity towards your friends. She might think that they are jerks, mean, or losers. If she sees you hang out with guys that she opposes she may figure you to be just like them and will avoid you. Take a good look at your fiends are they representative of you? If not, then maybe you should lessen the time you spend with them.

She might be busy. The best thing to do in a situation like this is to catch her at convenient times, not when she is going to class, or to work. Try to catch her when she seems the least busy.

She thinks that you are promiscuous and have no respect for women. Maybe you have a reputation for dating multiple girls and she wants no part of that. If you do have this reputation you will have to convince her that you would not treat her badly. You will have to show her that you only have an interest for her.

She might be having a bad look day. Many girls are very conscious of their looks and maybe the days that you speak to her are her off days.