Win Back Your Ex Boy Friend with Dignity

Jamie Lloyd
Love has no boundaries, if it can take you to the seventh heaven, it can also crash you down to the EARTH.

Sometimes you love someone so intensely that when he leaves you, it becomes impossible for you to tolerate the fact ,and in order to regain him back into your life somehow you hurt your self respect. You forget that after a few minor break ups you arenot be able to see your image in it exactly when a relation ends then even your thousand prayers can't mend it back.

Our lives do not blow in a same flow. Ups and downs is very obvious in it. Life never stays at a stagnant position. Someone becomes very special to your life (more than your own life) within a very short time but when he departs from you, the pain of losing him makes your life feel like a living hell. Sometimes you don't understand what your mind wants and you lose the most precious person of your life. But when you get to know that you made a mistake your so called ego does not permit you to say you are sorry. So the wish to get back your ex boy friend remains a mere wish.

If your beloved one leaves you for some reason and you wish to have him back into your life then don't get impatient. Be the same person whom he had fallen in love with in the beginning. Don't try to change yourself, and try to do the things which he loves the most. Do these things within a stone's throw of him so that he gets to know how desperate you are to have him back. If all your efforts goes in vein then don't be disheartened because then there must be someone more suitable that is waiting for you, somewhere in the world. May be that's why God made him indifferent from you, you should try and forget him then.

If you understand that you made a big mistake by leaving your boyfriend then have the guts to say your sorry to him and admit your mistakes, nothing works better than this. But remember don't you ever reach out and beg for mercy. That person may be very valuable in your life; in no way can there be anything more worthy than your self respect. If your Ex boy fiend loves you truly he will understand your feelings and come back to your life once again. If it does not happen then may be he never loved you whole heartedly so don't remorse. Love is not all about achieving something; in fact, it is all about the feeling you shared with your partner before you parted ways.

But there is a famous proverb that everything is fair love and war. So if you want your ex-boyfriend back in your life by hooks or by crooks then forget about the dignity factor because these philosophical words are good to listen to, but they will never be able to comfort your soul. So do whatever your soul says.

Published by Jamie Lloyd

I am 27 years old I have 2 great kids at home 1 is 4 years old and the other is 21 months old, I am currently working at home as a freelance writer to earn extra money so I can stay at home with my 2 kids we...  View profile

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