Workforce Re-Entry Quality Resumes for Stay at Home Moms

Brandi Brown
When you left your job nine years ago, rejoining the workforce probably wasn't much of a consideration. Instead you found yourself enamored with that little baby who would begin to redefine your life. Now, though, the workforce is calling, and you're stuck looking at a huge gap in your resume. How do you explain your life at home while maintaining your professionalism? "Stay at home mom" isn't exactly a huge boost on your resume. Using euphemisms, such as "household manager" or "domestic executive" is valuable only to others in your position who understand the burden of staying home.

Your best strategy is to focus on exploiting your volunteer experience and creating a bang-up cover letter. Fist let's consider your volunteer experience. Have you worked with the Parent Teacher Organization? Did you coach Nancy's soccer team? Were you on the planning committee for a humane society fundraiser?

Organize your resume so that instead of focusing on work history, which will bring the gap in your history to the fore, put "recent experience" first and include your volunteer work. You needn't include every single activity you've done. Select the ones that involved the largest number of hours and have the skills that will translate into good workplace experience.

The soccer team coach learned about communications, for instance, which will help if you're looking to move back into work as an administrative assistant. You will find that as the committee head for the sponsorships committee for that humane society fundraiser, you learned about soliciting for donations and networking. These skills are great for a number of professions.

The cover letter is more important for you, however. The traditional purpose for a cover letter is to allow your employer to see what you have that relates specifically to the position they have open and to see whether you have taken the time to do any research about their company.

For the stay at home mom, though, the cover letter is the place to show how the skills you learned as a full-time administrator of your household will translate into viable work skills. Those euphemisms for stay at home moms may come in handy here. Try to keep in mind that you may be facing people who resent or dislike women who stay at home with their children. Do not be noble. Do not talk about the sacrifices you have made. Women who work full-time and then cook largely convenience meals for their families often believe they "do it all," never considering that you cook from scratch and organize all of those classroom parties to which they send a bag of chips.

To combat this misunderstanding, you need to focus on skills. You can mention your children but only in regards to the ways in which working with them will help you. If you are trying to get a job in a computer-based job, for example, you can explain how you have honed your research skills using various library databases in assisting your children or how you have gained a clear understanding of "nanny" programs used to filter Internet sites.

The skills you have learned as a stay at home mom are varied, but be creative in defining them. Instead of saying that you're in charge of the family finances, focus on the skills transfer - the budgeting and entry-level bookkeeping skills you've learned. Show potential employers that you made the most of your time at home and that you're ready to use your talents to help their company.

Published by Brandi Brown

I am a former reporter who currently works as a web content writer while building my freelancing career. I am working on a children's book, Asia's Adventures, as well as several adult pieces. I live in Frank...   View profile

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  • Jacqueline Cary 11/11/2009

    I am a working mother who went back to work after being home with my son for 3yrs. I went back to work out of finacal need. But still manage to NOT just send a bag of chips, to school functions. Working moms are so busy making excuses for why they're sooo busy. To busy to be a mom??? Then why have kids? Being a MOM period is the hardest job, not just working Mother or stay at home mom. YOU as a person decide what kind of mother you're going to be so instead of making excuses or chastizing others walk away from your computer/TV whatever and take the hour and bake the darn cookies help with the planning stop making your children feel like they're not important enough and stay at home moms who are so rightous and judgemental how about offering help instead of judging. Moms feel guilty enough without other peoples crap.

  • Jacinda Lewis 7/2/2009

    I am currently a stay at home parent looking to return to work and I think this article was great. Thanks for the advice. Also, I don't think the writer of this piece spoke in a derisive manner about working mothers. I think in the whole "made from scratch meals vs. convenient meals, bags of chips" blurb she is merely pointing out differences. It's not like she said those convenient meals were less tasty or anything like that. Futhermore, she tells SAHM's "do not be noble" for working mothers often feel they "do it all".

    Women should be more supportive of each other and the personal choices we make in life!

  • marie wagle 2/18/2009

    'Women who work full-time and then cook largely convenience meals for their families often believe they "do it all," never considering that you cook from scratch and organize all of those classroom parties to which they send a bag of chips' how do you expect working mothers, the ones who may be going to hire you, to respect your choice to stay-at-home when you talk about these women with such derision? you should also realise that their are many sacrifices a working mother makes when she goes back to work. Not all women can afford to stay at home.

  • Cheryl Goodwin 8/7/2007

    Isn't that the truth about organizing school functions for which working Moms often send a bag of chips. I just wish people recognized and appreciated we need all types of Moms, both working Moms AND Stay at Home Moms to "make the world go 'round." If we respected each other and individual decisions, it would be great! Anyway, this is a great article and exactly what I need right now as I prepare to apply for a part-time job.

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