Is it because of my strong presence or the intense energy I put out that scare single women into thinking I'm unapproachable, or too good-looking for them?
Perhaps it is certain women feel they are stuck in a relationship and refuse to get out? Their low self-esteem keeps them down and the man they are dating seems to thrive off of it. Keeping her down.
I had an interesting conversation with a woman the other day about cookies. Yes cookies. We were talking about the recent relationship I was in and how it failed, for lack of better word. I was dating this woman for several months and she is half my age. We went our separate ways because she felt there would never be a future between us. She felt the age difference was too much of a hurdle to overcome. This friend off mine offers advice and says to me,
"Pete, women want more and more. Give them a little and they will want more. They are insatiable and are never really satisfied."
What she meant to me personally was my ex was thinking about our future. She was falling for me a little more everyday and she wanted another step to go to. When she began thinking she was not going to get anymore she decided to bail. She made preempted strike to insure no pain later.
Then this woman said to me something very interesting about her ex boyfriend which gave me great insight into a why women involved with someone are highly attracted to me. She said,
"I used to yell at him, her ex, claiming he was always hanging this cookie over my head. And each time I would try to reach up and grab it, he would take it higher in the air so I could not reach it. And the jerk wouldn't even drop a crumb. Not one stinking crumb!"
Am I that cookie to women I meet or am I the ultimate candidate for women with low self-esteem, to make her boyfriend jealous. Hard to say. I realize every case is different. That is why I propose this question. Would you cheat on your boyfriend or is the mere thought that something better came along and you're going to miss it drive you to entertain cheating thoughts.
I would find it interesting to hear your answers to my question but you must understand, I will read into them. I am constantly searching for the deeper meaning behind a woman's words. While most men claim they don't understand you I realize why, they just don't know how to interpret the true meaning behind your words. So tell me, would you cheat on your boyfriend, and why?
Published by Peter White
I have spent the last ten years of my life going from the nice guy that finishes last with women, to the nice guy that finishes first. During this time I learned so much about myself, dating and relationship... View profile
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