Would You Date a Guy You Met at Yoga?

The short answer to this question is of course, why not? Common interests, shared value of physical and mental health, these reasons all point to giving your yoga cutie a try.

But more should be said about this. Frankly, I think that shared interests and values form the core to any relationship. Whether those interests are watching baseball games on TV, cooking, or yoga, it doesn't matter. The fact that you both chose this particular yoga class, at this particular time, can really say a lot about your potential compatibility. For example, if you both tend to attend yoga at 6 am, it's possible that you're both morning people. If you always show up in the afternoon, perhaps you're both self-employed or work at home. Small details in life can reveal a lot about a person.

Further, a mutual interest in yoga could be the best starting off point to any dating relationship. Think about all the first dates you've been on that have started slow-- nothing to say, all questions quickly answered, absolutely no flow. These problems are all easily solved by the mutual love of yoga. There are a host of conversational topics available to you surrounding yoga-- favorite yoga poses, reasons for practicing, spirituality, teacher preference; type of yoga most enjoyed....and the list goes on.

Given my gusto for the idea of dating a guy I met at yoga, I have to admit that there are several potential drawbacks to the idea. First of all, if the date goes well, you may feel pressure to "get cute" for each yoga class-- you know what I mean: makeup, new yoga clothes, combed hair. All of this emphasis on looking good for yoga class could get in the way of your ability to practice, and your focus on practicing yoga for your own self-improvement.

Even worse, if the date goes poorly, going to yoga class the next week may look like a very dreary future. But skipping your yoga class for fear of seeing your date is not a wise choice. Just because it didn't work out as a romantic relationship doesn't mean a meaningful friendship cannot be formed. If you found common interests, don't neglect these in the face of your differences.

With all of these concerns in mind, I have to say that I think it would be worth the chance. Who knows what kind of relationship might be sparked in yoga and turn out to be a long-lasting companionship or friendship.