Although I'm married, my husband isn't the church-going type. He went for a while with me with my in-laws and his grandparents, but it dwindled off. I just can't convince him to get back into it. So, I really don't want to go by myself and drop my child off in a nursery with some stranger while I sit alone in a pew in the sanctuary. That feels very awkward and unappealing to me. I'm a very self-conscious person and I wouldn't be able to get past my insecurities about being alone (not to mention not having a wardrobe of dress clothes for church). Instead of focusing on what I SHOULD be in church, I would be thinking about everything else.
So what if there were an online church? One where I could sit in my PJ's at midnight or noon or 8 PM or 6 AM or whatever time I wanted and participate in a service. I could instant message or post to a forum and it could be an interactive experience. How cool would that be?!
I'm already much more comfortable online than in person. I know I would be a lot more open to really exploring my feelings and challenging my faith to grow if I were comfortable. Please don't over-analyze what I am saying. I know sometimes we have to step outside of our comfort zones to really hear what God might have to say to us. I'm also not trying to say that everything else in my life is more important than God, so I just can't fit Sunday service into my busy schedule. I just think if more options were there for the frazzled, hectic person then a lot more people might be open to exploring their faith on a regular basis.
Some might argue that this would eliminate the praise and worship experience. Okay, well that's why these things are available on CD and DVD. Just because I'm not singing and praying next to a person in a pew doesn't mean I can't get achieve the same communion with God. So then the next arguement is probably the Bible verse about "where 2 or 3 are gathered in His name". Do we have to be gathered in person? I think being at the same site or forum is still a gathering.
People go to school and work online. Why not church too? Then we could all get together for a luncheon fellowship occasionally to experience social interaction. I know I personally am a lot more inclined to really challenge myself and speak my mind on the keys. I get flustered and unable to put my thoughts into verbal words in person. I would be the ideal member for this new church.
Anyone else want to join?
************ I realize this does nothing for raising my child in church and this whole concept is based SOLELY on my own spirituality. It still has kinks to work out regarding children.************
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Post a CommentPS if you do things God's way and not your way, the problem will solve itself with your children
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Do you think that God wants to give people that make an excuses any more effort than people who are willing to get off their butt and make sacrafices? If you honestly think you are too busy to take a few measly hours a week out of approximately 148 hours in the week than I pray that God has mercy on your soul. Terrible article. Get your mind right. God comes first. The thoughts of man and material things come last. Quit mking excuses and get off your butt.
You may want to check out clf.uua.org for an on-line virtual church. (Church oif the Larger Fellowship)
Very good article. While I myself am not interested in going to church online, I think that it is feasible and I am thinking of starting an online youth group for teenage girls. One thing you may want to do if you still want to try going to church in person is look around. Not all churches have what you need. Some churches are more for unsaved people than saved people. Others are big on fellowship and some are big on preaching. Look around, pray, and find one that you love. Then, look at their children's programs. Some churches have great children's programs while others are lacking. Good luck and God Bless!