Yah Know I Wanna Work But...

Viktorya Hale
I got all this stuff on my mind...

Goodness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay today is 'let's talk about love, sex and all that.

Katy's opinion and no I am not always RIGHT - just most of the time. When I am WRONG - I am woman about it, I admit it and I can handle it.

This is how it is alright. We are to LOVE people as a Christian. We are even suppose to be intimate with them. We should feel no condemnation to hug or kiss someone on the cheek, whether we do it to a female or a male.

Jesus greeted with a HOLY KISS. It is called agape huney. It is DEEP. It is REAL. It is GODLY.

If we cannot share agape with others, we have some major security issues. If we are jealous over a loved one sharing agape, we have security issues.

Many people are insecure and OH it is so unbearable. When you are not trusted... it stings. It HURTS. It is a bad feeling. Especially if you are the type that shows agape. People can't handle their lover loving other people. It is sad.

Katy is the type that will freely and with no condemnation walk up to a friend and embrace them, male or female. She can do this with no sexual thoughts or feelings, whatsoever. Why? It is agape. It is beyond sex. It is way beyond any physical thing.

Let me flip it up here. Okay I can have those strong and deep feelings towards another woman. I have and I do. I love my best friend Lisa. I would hug and kiss her even. We have even passed jokes that many may think we homosexual in nature.

Then there is something that happens when it isn't right anymore. There is a line that doesn't get crossed. You can be INLOVE with someone and ANYONE and it is OKAY.

It is called agape love. It is in the Bible. In fact it is the most important commandment.

There ain't no shame in the love I have for others. I love deep and if you know me, you know that is true. It has nothing to do with sex.

If I walk up to a friend girl of mine, I would throw my arms around her and hold her. I would to a man friend as well. Depending on how close we are, I would even kiss them on the cheek.

All in a nut shell: You can love deep, true, be in love with someone's heart yet not have sex with them or have any sexual desires towards them. This is how Jesus loves us. This is how Jesus loves his Disciples. This is how Jesus loves Mary Magdeline. He was very intimate towards all of them. He washed their feet. Hello .... spouses don't even do that. He did it because HIS LOVE IS DEEP.

Okay, I am done lol. Hopefully it all makes sense.

Published by Viktorya Hale

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  • Secretsides4/4/2008

    Very well said Victoria , Katy and very true. Agape love.

  • RM Gal4/3/2008

    Very nice! This works for all spiritual, religious, and philosophical beliefs--which mean to bring us altogether, although they sometimes separate. It's good to be allowing. Agape is allowing. Very nice!

  • Nikki4/2/2008

    You go girl! I'm a big hugger myself :-)

  • cathiesbloggs4/2/2008

    A hug can mean so much sometimes !!!!

  • Justice Lives Not4/2/2008

    Excelent.

  • Jasmine Starr4/2/2008

    Love it.. :-)

  • 3lilangels4/2/2008

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful piece, I am a hugger too, and I am sending you a big cyber hug from me to you!

  • Victoria Hale4/2/2008

    Thanks Tony - glad you see it, thanks ladies I LOVE YOU ALL HUGZ agape hun!!!!

  • Charlie K4/2/2008

    I'm a hugger myself.

  • Mags4/2/2008

    Thanks for sharing this Katy nicely done.

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