You May Be a Man's Mistress and Not Even Know It
When we are in a new relationship, we tend to not see things as what they are. It's that goo goo eyed, puppy dog love, and he could do no wrong. If you take a step back and look though, some of the things may not add up as well as you would think. You may be a mistress and you might not even realize it!
What if he seems to want to spend all the time in the world with you, but that time always seems to be late at night? He's there, but he's not there until 10pm? At first this could seem normal, but in reality it's not. You might be the mistress!
Does he have a Myspace page with no picture and a fake name? That probably didn't seem normal at first, but what about when he told you that he's really concerned with privacy? He doesn't like his personal information spread out all over the Internet. That's a good answer right? NO, he probably uses Myspace to meet new women and doesn't want his wife or girlfriend to find out! You might be a mistress!
Does he have a cell phone, but you don't have the number? Why don't you have his number? I'm sure he has yours. I'm sure he calls you, probably from a private number. Whatever he says, the real reason you don't have his phone number is because his wife or girlfriend may check his phone. You might be a mistress!
Does his "mom" seem to call more than normal? Does his "mom" call at 3am? He's probably not that much of a mama's boy, you however, might be a mistress!
What happens is you know he's "ending" a relationship when you start dating? What if he tells you that he is only happy when he's with you and she makes him miserable? He probably says he can't end the relationship right now because (insert lame excuse here). Wake up ladies, if he loved you and was planning on ending a relationship, he would've already done it! You might be a mistress.
If any of these describe your current situation and you don't like the idea of being a mistress, then you may want to leave this relationship as fast as you can!
Published by Emily Retherford
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3 Comments
Post a Commentthis is tha truth my ex had 5 other girls on tha side and i didnt know until it was to late. now that we r over he has a new girl and he still wants me to b with him but i cant
omg this is sooo David!
My "boyfriend" paid all my debts, turned this independent woman into a completely dependent woman, and then blamed all his bad behavoir on the loss of his son, before I realized it was all a con-game to make me into his paid mistress. I hope he never does this to anyone else again.