Your Cheating Wife: Signs of Infidelity

She frequently stays out late with "friends" - It is very understandable for a woman to go out with her close friends for a night of drunken enjoyment. I would expect men to do the same especially when you miss the male camaraderie that unknowingly dissipates after one gets married. However, if your wife begins to habitually claim that she is meeting with her friends on weekends and/or weekdays in addition to coming home late, any reasonable man should be concerned of foul play. Thus, you would be forced to reevaluate your spouse.

If this situation arises you should be worried. Your train of thought should revolve around questioning such as, "Why is she staying out so late?" More specifically, why is she staying out late with the same friends so frequently over a brief time span (let's say 1-2 weeks)?

Begin contemplating the reasons she gives you. Are they suspicious excuses or actual justifiable and fitting reasons? This is the line of questioning you should proceed to ask yourself and then your wife. If the end result points to shifty excuses that cause great uncertainty in your mind then chances are she may be cheating on you with one or multiple men. Keep a look out for this warning signal and you'll be able to deal with this situation sooner than later which is always a plus.

She acquires new male friends

This is just apparent. New male friends that you've never met always raise a red flag in any intelligent man's mind. Every guy would typically react with worry, fear, anger, and paranoia. If your wife suddenly has a new male buddy, I would recommend and condone snooping around to find out who this possible home wrecker is exactly.

Now be prepared because it is a possibility that her new buddy really is just a friend. I believe married men and women are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex as long as you know there is no physical attraction or sexual tension between them. Thus, it is your job to take her new friend as a warning sign and pry into their relationship cautiously without being apprehended. You should also make sure you don't jump to immediate conclusions unless you have discovered concrete evidence that references your wife's unfaithfulness.

If it turns out he really is just a friend but being the jealous husband you are you still want her to stop seeing him (especially if the buddy is a good looking straight male) then you should try out your manipulative powers to sabotage their relationship and end their unbearable shenanigans. So stay sharp and play her smart. Obviously, if you do happen to stumble upon her cheating on you with this "buddy" then abandon ship. I hope the two of you signed a prenuptial agreement.

Sexual intercourse decreases with you

I know this may be an underlying factor of marriage but still the two of you should be at least sleeping with each other once in a while and enjoying it. If the amount of times the two of you have sex drops from 1-2 times a week to once every two weeks or a month, then that is a pretty large drop and you should definitely investigate the matter.

In addition to the drop in sexual activity, you should also gauge her enjoyment level and check if she has that bored expression on her face when the two of you are "knocking boots." If she does seem bored and appears to be faking or waiting for you to finish then you should begin worrying that your wife is getting that good loving somewhere else.

The fact of the matter is that all women enjoy sex. Maybe they don't like to do it as often as men do but when they do, they too, would like to have a pleasant experience. Hence, if she's not experiencing it with you then she could be going to get it else where. I suggest keeping an eye out on your neighbors and making sure your wife isn't borrowing sugar from them.

She frequently is frustrated and angry with you

It's no secret. Being that you're the husband you are subjected to being reprimanded and probably deservingly the majority of the time. It's possible her anger is created by outside influences such as work and you just happen to be there when she unleashes her frustrations. However, if she just gets mad at you for no apparent reason and shoots you a look of disgust and hatred then she may just want to be with someone else. Of course, that someone else is a total mystery to you. Especially, since she's been hiding him in the closets and under the bed whenever you unexpectedly come home in the midst of their afternoon romping. I'm just joking. Not really. So if your wife is "pissed off" at only you while quite pleasant to everyone else, she probably no longer enjoys your company. Consequently, look out for a discreet lover(s) roaming around your humble abode.

Receives text messages or phone calls at odd hours

When did she suddenly start Texting so much? It makes you wonder. Doesn't it? She's rushing to her phone during the middle of dinner. It's eleven o'clock at night and she's still on the phone and not in bed yet. These are some the occurrences that you may witness. Though text messages and phone conversations aren't very strong evidence of infidelity you would be surprised how much information text messages divulge. These days, if you ever want to spot any clear signs of disloyalty you have to get your hands on her cell phone.

I've recommended to others to unknowingly look through their partner's cell phones and it has proven to be a fast and easy way to know where she stands. Just by knowing who she calls and at what hours tells you a lot. In addition, text messages tell you what tone she is taking with these supposed friends of hers. Reading her text messages demonstrates whether or not she is flirtatious with someone or may simply inform you of an affair. Therefore, be conscious of what is happening around you and specifically, around your wife. You never know when foul play is afoot.

Buys an extra cell phone or deletes all texts and call logs on her phone

If your wife is on the sly side, don't be surprised if you find that she has purchased an extra cell phone or notice that she deletes all her call logs & text messages on a regular basis. You should be quite concerned since she is obviously hiding something or someone from you. To do all this just to hide something from you, it's definitely her big dark secret. I think it's safe to assume her secret involves a discreet love affair.

With a new cell phone and text and call log deletion your wife definitely covers up her tracks well so that she is virtually untraceable. However, the best way to find out what she's been up to is not to ask but to follow. This may be classified as the acts of a stalker but paranoid times calls for paranoid measures. Find out where she goes after she uses that extra cell phone and hopefully you'll catch her in the act of deceit.

Remember, the only way to get the upper hand on the devious wife is to be sneaky as well. Good luck, Godspeed, and make sure she doesn't catch you tailing her in her rear view mirror.

She suddenly is more concerned about her physical appearance

The wife you knew hasn't gone to a gym in years and has only had time for personal shopping once in a blue moon. Suddenly, she's got a new membership at the local fitness club and is frequently buying new sexy lingerie and form fitting outfits. Lingerie that you never get to see and dresses she never wears out with you by the way. Something is definitely up.

Ask yourself, "If she's not wearing her new apparel for me, who is she wearing it for? And why is she so adamant about going to the gym?" Indeed her actions are very blatant. Her infidelity only becomes more apparent with each pound she sheds at her aerobics/kick-boxing class. A glow on her face begins to develop with every dress size she drops. Suddenly, she's going out without your knowledge to unknown locations.

You definitely do not have to fall helpless into this situation so I suggest you pay close attention to this sign of betrayal and act accordingly or your wife will be leaving you for her personal trainer.

Accuses you of cheating or questions your faithfulness to her

Did paranoia suddenly strike your wife? After coming home late without you knowing what she's been doing, she begins interrogating you about your whereabouts while she's been off in some vile man's arms. This is a very obvious sign of her infidelity. I have personally experienced and witnessed this very situation. She is questioning your faithfulness because she feels guilty and is worried that you have become aware of her disloyalty and have plans to either leave her or retaliate in kind.

Her guilt can be used to your advantage depending on the level of it. If she signifies that she feels quite terrible about her behavior then you can probably manipulate her into directly saying that she has been unfaithful. However, hearing those words can be very devastating and if you don't think you can hold it together emotionally, you may not want her to tell you so bluntly. In any case, watch for this sign because it usually leads to the preparation of divorce papers.

You notice that she doesn't wear her wedding ring at times

The wedding ring: a symbol of commitment and love. It's understandable if she forgets to wear it a couple times. However, when entering into marriage there is no reason to take off the ring and one should expect their partner to always have it on. The problem is that not everyone follows this unwritten rule. Those who do not adhere to this unspoken regulation are typically deceitful wives (and husbands).

The cheating wife will forget to put her wedding ring back on before seeing you at some point. It's truly inevitable. Eventually, she'll forget but don't call attention to it the first or second time you notice. You want her to think that you don't notice at all and wait for her to prance around without the ring more often. After she has done it several or more times, then you can begin your interrogation and find out all the gruesome details of her treachery. Therefore, keep a watchful eye on that wedding band. You'll be glad you did.

She no longer confides in you or has personal discussions

If she never really confided in you then you already don't have a great marriage. But usually, husband and wife obviously discuss personal matters and confide in each other in order to vent, discover solutions, find comfort, etc. As a husband, you may be overjoyed by the fact that she is talking to you less about subjects that absolutely do not spark your interests. However, you must take this sign into consideration for a possible discrepancy in your marriage.

Although the level of nagging and complaining has decreased that may leave the door open for more serious and unbearable issues to enter into your relationship with your wife. Unfortunately, you want her to actively speak to you because that is a very positive sign of a healthy marriage untainted by infidelity. Thus, keep her engaged and don't ignore her and maybe you'll keep your wife away from flirting with the idea of cheating.