Your Guide to Being a Player

First off, before you start judging this article and saying "I'm not a player" or "This doesn't apply to me" let me explain what a player is. Men and women call themselves players and in reality they are just hoes, sex addicts, or perverts on social games. They might have some game, but they use it for low level indulgences. A true player will never use game to satisfy their addictions. A player will seek the vanities of life while a true player will strive to enjoy true meaning in life. Living and enjoying love, peace, freedom, abundance, and teaching others how to do the same is the goal.

One pro of being a player is that you get to use your game as charm, breaking down any possible barriers in communication across social status, class and race. When you have perspective, you realize that you are in control of your destiny. You will have extreme confidence in that you rely only on yourself, you talent and wit and this will ultimately lead to your success. Always consider business and friendship first and foremost before both sex and pleasure. Your mind will always be focused on the things that will make you money so you'll never worry about money.

One point to emphasize is you should never "play games". You need to have a good understanding of human emotions, habits, and tendencies but you should never use that ability to take advantage of others. Dodging people, juggling dates, and screening calls requires too much of your time. If necessary change your number every 6 months or when you feel it's necessary to start fresh with your list of contacts. The list of friends, associates, and otherwise who know where you live should be severely limited! I cannot stress the point that your privacy, sanity, and exclusivity will speak volumes about the type of person you are.

Spending time on the real things that matter can only help you progress in life. Take advantage of the time you will have freed up by removing people who are serving no particular purpose in your life. Find your strengths and be aware of your weaknesses. If you are familiar with your weaknesses it only strengthens you to focus on the weakness and eliminate it. Let no one steal your joy or cause you to be unstable in any way. The more free and clear your mind the easier dealing with the stresses of everyday life will become. Put yourself first in everything! Remember even when on an airplane in case of an emergency you have to put an oxygen mask on yourself first because when incapacitated, you can help no one.

Keep I mind this is all relative because the people, places, and things in everyone's life are different. Being equipped with all of the information above you can get a better idea of what truly being a player is, and how to get to the point that no one can stop your show. Remember-no matter what struggles you have been faced with in life if you confront your problems head on you will conquer them in time.