Zodiac Dating Guide: Virgo

How to Date a Virgo Man or Woman

Aziza Shumba
The Basics:
Birthday between August 22-September 23

The Virgo is a very independent zodiac sign who is analytical, detail-oriented, critical, intelligent, and reliable. On the downside, Virgos can be cold, skeptical, worrisome, and overly critical. They are thinkers and love to solve problems in a logical manner. Being loyal, honest and determined, Virgos make excellent friends as they strive to settle disputes and bring order to chaos. On the downside, Virgos tend to very critical of themselves as well as other people. They dwell on past events and make things much more complicated than what they are. Being almost obsessive thinkers, Virgos can seem detached from the world or even cold towards others keeping their emotions sealed away air tight.

Due to their nature, do not try and force them to make quick and on-the-spot decision. Virgos love to think, analyze, take apart, and investigate every option before coming to a decision. This makes them highly indecisive and because of this, you will need to have patience. Let them make their evaluations, but feel free to give advice as long as it is backed up with reason. Virgos also love intellectual stimulation. When conversing, throw in some facts and add various details to the topics being discussed. Another important conversational aspect is conclusions. You should try to come to some type of conclusion at the end of a conversation even if you disagree.

Virgos emotions are usually distanced from other until they feel comfortable with sharing. Just because they don't say how they feel does not mean they aren't feeling it. They tend to get locked up in their own minds, but sometimes dislike analyzing their own feelings. This is where denial comes into play. Denial is a world that they are prone to living it. When it comes to expression, a Virgo may say that everything is alright even when it is not. With the mind consistently reviewing over thoughts and possibilities, they also tend to naturally be worriers. If this is the case, then do not stress out. If you appear to be calm and understanding about a situation that a Virgo is worrying about, then they will pick up on that energy. If you begin to worry as well, or even give them more reason to worry, then it will make it even worse.

Dating the Virgo Woman

• Dating a Virgo woman requires patience and hard work but it will be worth it in the end because they are extremely loyal and devoted.

• Although she might seem detached due to fear of emotional vulnerabilities, there is a deeply passionate and loving woman underneath that will sometimes play hard to get.

• If and when she loves, she loves long term.

• She can be unstable at times, and even unpredictable.

• The Virgo woman has the potential to make you very happy

Dating the Virgo Man

• Dating a Virgo man also requires some patience and understanding as his sensuality will come out over time.

• He will treat women respectfully and admires one who is classy, tasteful, calm and collected.

• A Virgo man will appear calm and cool on the outside while he has quite the sensitive side on the inside.

• Due to his sensitivity, he might not let you get too close too quick. His feelings will be guarded until he feels comfortable. With that being said, do not try to pry at his emotions.

• This man will appreciate someone who is secure, stable and will make him feel emotionally safe. To gain his trust, be consistent, and don't move too fast. Once you get close, then he will give you his heart.

Published by Aziza Shumba

I am a student studying everything. Right now, I am trying to build up my freelance writing career and start my own business. I am a trained ballet dancer and violinist striving to be consistent in both. My...  View profile

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  • Gabrielle Rice6/29/2010

    This was an enjoyable article...and true. I'm a Virgo female.

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